Yeah, I didn’t mean they all are money-hungry whores, and I’ve met quite a few charming nice girls who dance for a living. I totally agree there. But, even though they say statistics don’t matter to the individual, in this case I think they do, most strippers are money-hungry whores. And with that in mind I’d rather pull some tail from the gym, school, coffeeshop, etc.

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At least you were challenging her a bit. And when she chucked up the test of “I have a boyfriend” then you should have just said “I just met you and your already telling me about your problems?” and then moved on with the conversation. She is a stripper. Do you know how many guys are going to try and hit on her and ask her out? So considering i think that you did a pretty good job. lol

• Loveawake

Yea, I hear you. I’ve been to some strip clubs where I was really attracted to some girls and some strip clubs where I was totally put off by the girls. I don’t like want to classify all strippers as “money-hungry whores” though. Strippers are people too and some are likely to have great personalities and be successful outside of the strip clubs. I think a good example is Diablo Cody, former exotic dancer, who recently won an Oscar for best original screenplay.

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As an Indian guy, I think that Indians in the field should make every effort to show that they are NOT saliently Indian. Same goes for Asians. The moment a girl thinks of you as "fobby nerdy socially inept Indian douche", the set of stereotypes associated with being Indian, you're done. So the antidote is acting like a white guy, or if you can pull it off (I can't) a black guy. Some girls I've talked to who don't know too many Indians actually think I'm a Mexican, I'm not making this up.

• Dutch Sugar Baby

I agree, you go to a strip club to be entertained and I was. However, when I see a beautiful woman I can’t help but think about seducing her. This would be the same if I were at a coffee shop, a bar, or a library, not just strip clubs. It just so happens that there are a lot of attractive women in strip clubs. Let me clarify on the sketchy club decision as I didn’t want to get into details in the original post. In Boston, there are only two strip clubs and they are both right next to each other. One is perceived by the general public as “the sketchy one” and the other “the classy one.” The thing is the sketchy one really isn’t all that sketchy, not by my standards anyways, so we originally decided that we’d check out both of them, but start with the sketchy one first. After spending all of our money, we never made it to the second one

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